I’ve tried to cultivate a “default yes” mindset lately. It’s so easy to say no to things, and often for no reason other than not wanting to change or think. It has its roots in procrastination and an unwillingness to try everything. That isn’t to say it should lead to reckless behavior, but at the very least it results in leaving the house, being social, and working on personal relationships. Somebody invites you to happy hour? Yes. There’s a new play to see at a small theater? Yes. Trivial night? Yes. There’s reason to stay no to these things, because I’ll just end staying home and missing out on existing in a community.